I love how you support R. Kelly he do not get the credit he deserves. I'm sure he's thankful for you.
I’ve loved him since I was 14… He is the best and I’ll ride for him every chance I get! Idk if he’s thankful for me but I’m for sure thankful for him. No one knows what his musical presence has gotten me thru… They also have no clue how big of a muse he has been to me. I’m glad u can see it… Hopefully he can too… But share my love on iTunes! :) #promi!
I Wrote This One Day When I was Pissed.... Just my thoughts...
Act Like a ???? Think Like a ???
Let me preference this opinionated open letter to all of the desperate women of the world by saying that I have never read either of the Act Like A Lady, Think Like a Man Books and my love for Steve Harvey is underwhelming to say the least.
Dear Desperate Woman,
I for one think everyone needs something or someone to believe in, it’s what gives us the drive to get out of bed every morning and actually attempt to get shit done. But I cannot for the life of me understand why anyone would choose to believe in something or someone who is
A. Selling Something and B. Does not appear to be what they are asking that you buy into.
Black male film directors have followed in Terry McMillan’s footsteps and cashed in on the single, successful, lonely woman cash cow and believe me when I say that these women are EATING these fabricated truths up! I am a young woman, I am successful (by my own standards), and I am not lonely however I am single. Most things these movies charge money to tell women what I try to tell them EVERY DAY for free, but because I look like they do my advice is thrown out of the window and they listen to 50 year old men who have been married countless times and have a motive as to why they began to give up the information in the first place. The disgruntled, lonely, successful woman truly works my last nerve and its mostly due to the fact that they can allow men to fall short, treat them as a last option, play them to the left on a daily basis, and disappoint them in every way but they can ALWAYS find a way to justify what this man has done. However, if a girlfriend of theirs did a quarter of the shit this man does they kick the girlfriend to the curb! The girlfriend tries to turn them on to a trend or musical artist they ignore it… the guys sends them the link and POW that’s their new favorite artist. The same can be said for advice, don’t discredit your female friends, especially if they have more experience in successful relationships than you do.
Also, know where you fit in… If you look like say India Arie but you will only date a Rick Fox 0_o how can you be mad that Rick didn’t want you but he married Vanessa Williams? You aren’t Vanessa Williams and instead of being so shallow and only searching for Rick Fox’s know your lane and start accepting phone numbers from the Wale’s of the world. Wale is cute and successful, is he Rick Fox? Nah, but he’d be into you and possibly give you the world, whereas Rick could give a fuck less about how your day was.
Did any of you women who bought into this Think Like a Man bullshit ever take the time to actually evaluate what Steve was saying? He says that the game has changed; men have changed, so women need to change their game… Steve is a 50+ year old and has been married for a VERY long time… You are in your 20’s looking for a 20-30 year old man… Steve’s memories of that dating game have even changed! He is not the man who approaches you at the gas station trying to spit game… He is the father figure you turn to for words of encouragement…
What’s even more mind boggling is that women in sororities and other organizations that empower women are the main ones buying into this madness. A woman from a sorority once told me “…a man cannot teach a girl how to be a woman. Those teachings come from women who have experienced life and walked in her shoes.”If this holds true why are these same women fine with taking advice from a man they’ve never met but they close their open ears to advice given by women who have walked in those very shoes?
If you need to believe in something or someone put your faith in God, Buddah or whatever spiritual leader you choose to worship and pray and ask them to guide your steps. Truly open your heart and mind and be willing to let go of those who are bad for your growth as a woman. You are completely bitter and disgruntled because the man that you cannot have you find yourself wanting more every time he hurts your feelings. I can relate… but I was 19 going through those crazy trials.. You are 30 fucking years old! The guy may not be a bad guy but he is bad for you and until you accept that notion you will be forever alone and saddened by your situation. It does not take the host of family feud or morning radio to figure out that Men are not the issue… YOU ARE the issue.
I love you! You're my girl crush! I follow yOu on instagram and twitter you are beautiful! For some reason I'm totally attracted to you
Wow… Thanks a billion. I don’t really think ur attracted to me… I don’t think most people are… I think they like the free spirit that I can sometimes represent. But if it helps, I’d totally rock your world ;) lol
I wish my wife were as liberated as you. I read your tweets and posts and I fall in love. Are you married? If not I'm sure you are very close to it and that bastard is lucky as fuck! My wife is crazy uptight we could have so much fun if she could just relax... Like you! I've never wanted to cheat before but with you.... I know I would.
Uhhh thanks.?. I think it’s only attractive because I’m not ur wife… If I were married my personality would b the same but not as loud.meaning I’d be like this for him but my online presence would simmer a bit.
That being said I’m not married.. I’m actually single… But when he gets here ill tell him that u said he’s lucky